Falling Into The Trap Of Being “Good”

We grow up being told to be the "good girl", "the good boy" and when we aren't "good" in the eyes of authority we are punished in some way - either through shame, avoidance, anger or some form of discipline whether it is physical or emotional. It is programmed into us at the very beginning: … Continue reading Falling Into The Trap Of Being “Good”

Moving Toward Forgiveness

The burden, the crushing weight of carrying old pain. Over time, it becomes less noticeable, as it becomes something we are accustomed to carrying. We don’t even notice how heavy we have become. Old hurts, past resentments colour our view. We see the world in dark shadows of things people did to us and things … Continue reading Moving Toward Forgiveness

Don’t Follow the Trends, Find Out Who You Are.

Fab diets, a certain type of yoga, a different meditation, it changes every week. What is popular is based on what is trending, but it doesn't necessarily mean that what is popular will be good for you or even work for you. We are all very different and what may work for one person may … Continue reading Don’t Follow the Trends, Find Out Who You Are.

Opening the Heart

Being disconnected from the heart's energy, is one of the hardest things I have ever had to overcome. Feeling numb, disconnected, stressed, anxious, unsure of how you feel about this and feeling nothing at all. It's as though one just walks through life, unaffected and zombie-like. Not really feeling or taking anything in, ones passion's … Continue reading Opening the Heart