Falling Into The Trap Of Being “Good”

We grow up being told to be the "good girl", "the good boy" and when we aren't "good" in the eyes of authority we are punished in some way - either through shame, avoidance, anger or some form of discipline whether it is physical or emotional. It is programmed into us at the very beginning: … Continue reading Falling Into The Trap Of Being “Good”

When Your Parent Dies

I think most of us are scared even thinking about the day when they don't pick up the phone anymore. Especially if we have a good relationship with our parent it can be even more devastating. It's a ruthless and real part of life, that nothing lasts forever, not even the people that gave us … Continue reading When Your Parent Dies

Opening the Heart

Being disconnected from the heart's energy, is one of the hardest things I have ever had to overcome. Feeling numb, disconnected, stressed, anxious, unsure of how you feel about this and feeling nothing at all. It's as though one just walks through life, unaffected and zombie-like. Not really feeling or taking anything in, ones passion's … Continue reading Opening the Heart

Tips to Not Hate Winter but to Actually Enjoy It

It's getting colder... The days are getting darker. 'oh... noo...' I know what your thinking. Autumn is over and the winter equinox is upon us. Winter doesn't have to be all that bad, it can be beautiful. I know, it can be unbearable at times cause where I am it can be 6 months long … Continue reading Tips to Not Hate Winter but to Actually Enjoy It